not even close to
This expression is used to indicate that a situation is far from the expected or usual state.
Examples
今は旅行どころではない。仕事が忙しいから。
Now is not a time for travel; I'm too busy with work.
お金がないので、遊びに行くどころではありません。
I can't even think about going out to have fun because I have no money.
彼の態度は謝るどころではなかった。
His attitude was not even close to one of an apology.
Quick check
お金がないので、遊びに行く___どころではありません。